Beth writes

Tag: identity

  • Beth tells all – five things that shaped my life

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    Okay, this won’t be telling all but I hope some will find out more about me I think. Here come five things that shaped my life.

    1. As a child I read a lot of books and was always imagining. Books were like a lifeline for me, where I could escape on magical adventures. I was always having ideas for poems, stories, songs and plays in my head. So that is where I got my love of writing from.
    2. When I was 15, I was in intensive care on life support for 2 months. It took some work to get the images and sounds of the machines out of my head. I turned the trauma into an art piece at university – for which I got a B.
    3. I only passed my GCSE’s with 3 c’s – and got E’s for maths and science having to resit. The rest of my grades were between C and E. And I scraped through my university degree with a 2-2. So while the others were celebrating their exam results, it was harder for me. How did this shape me? It reinforced my ideas of what I was good at, and what not so.
    4. Having to face a lot of social rejection and bullying has made me more adamant to fight this. I have been quite vocal for disability and lgbtq inclusion, and challenging hate during my life.
    5. When I was 13 I found a local am dram group and joined for the pantomime. Acting has always been something I absolutely love. What a surprise I got with a birthday in pantomime week though. I got pulled back on for the birthday song.

  • What does it say on the box?

    What does it say on the box?

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    Brands often have catchphrases that people associate with them.

    For example –

    Pringles – once you pop you can’t just stop

    Club – If you like a lot of chocolate in your biscuit

    But we have our own brands too.

    My brand – Engaging, entertaining, accessible and diversity positive content.

    What would my memorable statement be? I would like it to be “Think outside the box and embrace diversity.”

    What would yours be?

  • Disability Pride month

    Why do we have disability pride?
    The answer goes down to finding our identity and feeling good about ourselves. It also serves to promote the need for diversity and encourage others to embrace it.

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    Time for a personal reflection on it.
    Finding yourself is a lot harder when you are someone who doesn’t fit with normal social expectations. I have seen firsthand how it is to feel helpless and struggled to do things that others find easy.
    It took away my sense of self, belief in my skills and ability to be resilient. Being disabled can also leave people feeling burdened, and alone.

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    As humans progress, I believe we will one day change society so we can be included better.
    This will lead to more willingness to hire disabled workers, and more role models that show disability in positive light.

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    Right now, disabled are often viewed in media with certain stereotypes. These include superheroes and villains, vulnerable people who can’t manage, or miraculous healers. None of these are positive images that show a good picture of disabled lives.

    So, think about the disabled people around you, and who they want to be.

  • Write your own story

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    If you think this is about actually writing, you are wrong. Although writing is also a very good practice.

    So what am I on about? Life, identity, and setting your own path.

    You see society, family and others will try to fit us into particular moulds throughout our lives.

    The only one who should decide who we are though is us.

    So how do you find out who you are beneath the makeup? Are you ready to have a look in your internal mirror?

    I want you to stop reading for a minute, be in your thoughts and try to reflect on what you feel your purpose is. This might take more than a minute, and it would not be so effective for some in a loud environment.

    Perhaps go for a walk in the park and sit under a tree to think. Once you have figured out your purpose you know what sort of person you are.

    Let me end this thought with a quote from Robin Williams in Dead Poets Society

    “Carpe deum- cease the day.”

    And remember many of you can choose which path to take.